Tribute to a Loving Legacy

My grandmother, Mercedes, passed away this May at eighty-eight years old. She was many things to many people, but to all she was; loving, giving and very dear. She was one-hundred percent Italian and spoke the language fluently. She was proud of her heritage and family. She was an incredible cook and could easily feed a small army with the quantity of food she would prepare. She had an amazing memory. She enjoyed creating our favorite dish or treat at family gatherings. No one would dare to decline an offer of a "second helping" when she asked! She would say "Manga" eat! She wanted her guests to be fulfilled and taken care of. My grandmother was a gracious host. It would be impossible to leave hungry!
Her home was built from love. There was always music playing and delicious smells filled the kitchen. She would welcome her guests with a big hug and make them feel cozy. Her hospitality was second to none. Guests often congregated in the kitchen or living room, sharing stories and laughing. She was a great listener, gave intelligent advice and was incredibly dependable. Every time I phoned my grandma, she would welcome my call by saying "Hello, honey"!
She taught me many things about life. Instilling in me kindness, love, faith, strength and shaped the woman that I have become. I owe many things to my grandmother, without a doubt, her love made it possible for me to be an affectionate woman. Her personality was witty, kind, thoughtful and loved by all whom she came in contact with. She was a "grandma" to everyone. She would even keep cookies in her pantry for the neighborhood kids.
My grandmother was an extraordinary woman. When I needed her, she was always there for me. If I needed her to listen, she did. If I needed advice, she gave it. When I was sick, she would make great food to make be feel better. I wish everyone had a grandmother like mine. I realized early on, how special she was. How rare it was to have a very close relationship and bond, very much like a second mother. If you are lucky enough to have a grandparent alive, you should tell them you love them and invest the time with them. Elderly people have a lot to share about life experiences. Many cases, they just want someone to listen to their story, the story of their life. They want someone to understand the important memories and events that defined them. They also long for visitors of family and friends.
My grandmother touched many, many people in her lifetime. She left an imprint on each one of our hearts. She was an unforgettable woman and will be greatly missed by all. I would like to end this entry by a quote from her, Mercedes, "To love is to remember and I love to remember you."